The Power of Sharing is all about being friendly, helpful and communicative with people in very warm and practical ways. One of the strengths inherent in the Power of Sharing is also being good at forgiveness. This is the aspect of this Power we want to talk about today. If you’ve ever noticed how the little grudges you’re holding on to make you feel less than neighborly with others, then you’ve seen how these concepts connect.

Those little grudges can siphon off a lot of your life energy leaving you drained and feeling anything but ‘peachy’. Here are some cues that your Power of Sharing could use some strengthening:

• You’ve lost good friendships because you couldn’t figure out how to forgive and move forward after something ‘went down’.
• You find yourself acting fake when you see your boss or that neighbor you had a run-in with, smiling on the outside, but seething on the inside.
• Sometimes you punish your spouse by not talking to them or withholding love when you’re angry with them…occasionally turning a small disagreement into a full-blown argument.
• You ‘forgive’ someone because you know you should (it’s the spiritual thing to do) or because you need to in order to get by (like a boss), but in fact you’re stomach is tight or you feel tense or angry whenever you see that person.
• You’re still processing with your therapists all the anger and resentment you feel about how your family treated you when you were young.
• You beat yourself up for all the things you think you could’ve done better or differently….how you’ve handled your money, how you’ve treated your health, how you treat your kids, etc.

“Unforgiveness is the poison you drink every day
hoping that the other person will die.”

~Debbie Ford

What’s a quick and easy way to free up your energy? Lay down those hard feelings once and for all!

Chaya here….

I found this on the internet, and thought it was so beautifully written and critical to this topic:

“Forgiveness is not about condoning another’s hurtful actions, it’s about releasing your negative emotions and perceptions about the painful events.

Otherwise you keep yourself chained to those events or people – you keep it alive within you – and you carry it with you wherever you go.

It’s a very heavy burden to carry around and you end up crippling yourself emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically.”

A few years ago in a blog about the Power of Sharing, I shared that I needed to up my game regarding forgiveness. I had become aware that there were a few sticky people from my past who did not move through my mind with ease, but created some tension when I thought about them.

In that blog I committed to a plan, and I’m so happy to tell you that I stuck with it, and it worked!

First, I took the Peach Vibrancy Essence daily to get myself vibrationally aligned with forgiveness.

Of course, first, I had to forgive myself for not getting around to letting those grudges go sooner, and for not being a more evolved human being.

Then, I returned to the book Radical Forgiveness, and did the exercises the author recommended.

It’s so freeing now to scan my life and realize that those people I’d previously been unable to forgive, now have, as Rev. Karyl Huntley says, “harmless passage through my mind.”

If old resentments are draining your energy, I highly recommend this process. Get yourself into vibrational alignment with Peach energy, the Power of Sharing, and then do the work needed to free yourself.

Forgive yourself and others and reconnect with your warm and friendly nature.

Tap into your Power of Sharing – it will make your life so much easier!

• You’ll heal old friendships and keep the current ones healthy and happy.
• You won’t develop ulcers from the unresolved grudges burning inside, and when you see those people you used to have anger toward you’ll feel peace and freedom, and be able to be real with them.
• You’ll find loving ways to get through those difficult moments with your spouse quickly and without creating unnecessary damage.
• You won’t forgive someone ‘because you should’. You’ll forgive because it feels better than hanging on to the hurt.
• Those victim stories of your childhood will transform and the resentment blocking you from having a totally loving relationship with your family will melt away.
• You’re confidence will go up, the misery will go down, and your health and sleep will improve because you’ll be less judgmental and more accepting of your actions and choices.
  

   

2 Ways to Strengthen Your Peach Power of Sharing:

#1: Say or sing this affirmation until you believe it with your entire being:

“I am friendly, helpful and communicate easily.”

#2: Take 7 – 21 drops of Sharing Vibrancy Essence daily. It will help you to always be willing to share with others in ways that will make their lives a little sweeter and easier.

Forgive, move on and share!

“Sharing with others is not the way to get rich – it’s the way to get happy!”

~ unknown

Here’s to friendship!